Seek Out Wisdom

The Barefoot Executive

2012-03-20T16:09:00.003-05:00

Title: The Barefoot Executive
Author: Carrie Wilkerson
Rating: Good
Reason for Reading: I was selected to receive a free a copy of TheBarefoot Executive based on a comment I posted on Michael Hyatt’s blog (http://michaelhyatt.com/), with noexpectation that would post a review of it on my blog.
Format: Hardback

Summary: As the subtitle of the book says, this is theultimate guide for being your own boss and achieving financial freedom. Carrie breaks down the myths behind whysomeone can’t operate their own business, and why she thinks that it is a mustthat you do so. The freedom she talksabout isn’t a life without work, but a life where your ability to monetize yourskills is more dependent on you than your employer.
Carrie walks the reader through thebig mistakes to avoid, and the methods of the independent business person. She helps the reader understand that as abusiness owner, they’ve got more responsibilities to handle, but also canfulfill them in ways that better match their own unique life.
Carrie describes the different kindsof businesses, such as service based or expertise based, and how any or all ofthem might work for the reader, depending on what they have to offer themarketplace. Also, she equips the readerwith how to find and develop the market for their products and services.
Throughout the book, Carrie hasinserted case studies from her clients that made working for themselves work,and short videos where Carrie shares her story. Her enthusiasm for the topic and love for her readers bursts off thescreen. Though she’s casual andcomfortable, the reader and viewer will walk away with no doubts that she’s gotthe experience and wisdom to back up her words.
Review: I thoroughly enjoyed The BarefootExecutive. Carrie has written a bookabout business and life that is empowering emotionally and intellectually. Not only do I know more about the subject,I’ve developed a better understanding of my feelings about it. This isn’t just a book about the techniquesof starting your own business. Thisisn’t just a shallow encouragement that the reader can do the overly vague“anything” or lazily live off some passive income for the rest of their life. The Barefoot Executive will improve any reader’sunderstanding of the true nature of self-employment. Carrie’s passion about you taking what youhave and making it valuable to others will stir your emotions and fire yourimagination.
Joseph Iliff of Seek Out Wisdom
Other resources:

· http://carriewilkerson.com/

· http://blogbarefoot.com/

· http://barefoot-executive.com/

· @barefoot_exec on Twitter

The One Year Uncommon Life Daily Challenge

2012-01-09T01:17:00.002-06:00

Author: Tony Dungy and Nathan Whitaker

Rating: Good

Reason for Reading: Coach Tony Dungy has been an inspiration to me, not only as the former head coach of the Indianapolis Colts, but as a leader and mentor promoting responsible living and the importance of fatherhood since his retirement.

Format: Softcover

Video: http://www.coachdungy.com/index.php/the-one-year-uncommon-life-daily-challenge/

Summary: The book is a devotional with 365 readings, one for each day of the year. The readings are assigned by date, but not day of the week, so they can be used for any year. Also, if you are taking the Uncommon Life Daily Challenge with an accountability partner, you will always be reading the same item each day.
Each reading includes a bible verse, a story and commentary by the authors, and a challenge for how to practice the principles of an uncommon life that day. Within each week, there is one reading on each of seven relevant topics to the uncommon life: core, family, friends, potential, mission, influence, and faith.

Review: I very much like this devotional. It is very easy to read, with just one page per day, but provides valuable content each day. I enjoyed how the topic rotate through the seven overall themes each week, emphasizing how important keeping a balanced outlook on life is. And, each challenge for that day is small enough to encourage the reader to try it, but described with enough vision to see how all those small changes add up over time.
If you are looking for a devotional that you’ll look forward to picking up every day, I would recommend The One Year Uncommon Life Challenge.

Giveaway: I have a certificate for a complementary copy of The One Year Uncommon Life Daily Challenge to give away to one reader of my blog. Please leave a comment on this post about what is something that you find common among successful people that is uncommon among the unsuccessful. I will select a winner and request their contact information.

Joseph

Other resources:

· http://www.coachdungy.com/

· http://www.tyndale.com/

Up, Down, or Sideways: How to Succeed When Times Are Good, Bad, or In Between

2011-11-29T15:26:00.001-06:00

Title: Up, Down, or Sideways: How to Succeed When Times Are Good, Bad, or In Between

Author: Mark Sanborn

Publisher: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.

Rating: Good

Reason for Reading: I have heard Mr. Sanborn speak many times, and enjoyed his newsletter and blog post about leadership at http://www.marksanborn.com/. I was greatly attracted to the premise of what success principles work under such different economic conditions.

Format: E-Book, read on my Nook Simple Touch

Summary: In Up, Down, or Sideways, Mark Sanborn describes success principles that work in all economic conditions, addressing what leaders should see, how they should think, and what they should do. The author wrote the book while recovering from surgery following a cancer diagnosis, laying out what he describes as “good shoulds”, the actions that produce successful results independently from the circumstances in which they are performed.

Under the section titled See, Sanborn encourages leaders to focus on the things one can control, and looking beyond the abundance of information available to everyone to the actions that make the downs easier and ups bigger. In Think, Mark challenges the reader to examine the metrics they use to measure success, to appreciate the benefits of a positive disposition, and to adopt an approach of persistent learning. In Do, Sanborn espouses the benefits of maintaining a healthy supply of the things you do that are most valuable and the valuable persons you associate with. Finally, the author describes the constant need to innovate and engage what you do with creativity, and for successful persons to maintain a spirit of gratitude and embrace discipline.

Review: A book that describes in comfortable language the simple principles behind personal success is perhaps my favorite kind of book. I would put Up, Down, or Sideways squarely in that category. Much of what you’ll read in it will have you nodding your heading in agreement about how these basic tenets of personal power have worked for you or against you in the past, based on the choices you make. For the balance, the author is providing for you a greater understanding of how these principles work, by citing relevant research and providing descriptive examples of them in action.

For anyone wanting an enjoyable read about the meaningful subject of what they can do to improve their business, relationships, and life, Up, Down, or Sideways should be on your reading list.

Joseph

Other resources: http://www.marksanborn.com/

The 360° Leader by John C. Maxwell

2011-11-22T10:00:00.001-06:00

Title: The 360° Leader

Author: John C. Maxwell

Rating: Good

Purchase at Amazon

Reason for Reading: Of all of Maxwell’s many books on leadership, this one perhaps speaks most directly to my position, as I am a leader in the middle of my organization. When the BookSneeze® program offered this book, I requested a copy to review.

Format: Softcover

Summary: The 360° Leader is divided into six sections, as Maxwell walks the reader through the concept of leading from anywhere within an organization to the practical steps of maximizing your influence. First, Maxwell challenges the myth that only the persons at the very top of the organization chart can be true leaders. The author describes in detail how those within the middle of the organization have a unique and valuable opportunity to lead and influence others that the top leaders do not.

Then, Maxwell identifies the challenges of leading from the middle, describing how the approach of the 360° leader has to be different from the top executive. The author then dedicates a section to how the 360° leader exercises influence in all three possible directions:

Ø Leading Up: How to lead your leaders

Ø Leading Across: How to lead your peers and equals, and

Ø Leading Down: How to lead your subordinates and reports.

Finally, Maxwell describes how vital to the success of an organization the leadership skills of those in the middle are. As an example, he cites General Tommy Franks description of the United States Army as dependent on strength of its non-commissioned officers. Franks says that “sergeants are the backbone of the Army”.

This copy also included a workbook printed as an appendix, that the reader can use to develop the leadership skills Maxwell advocates for 360° leaders. The book also includes access to additional resources online at http://www.360degreeleader.com/

Review: I find that this book fills a critical niche in the leadership library that has been much overlooked. There are numerous books about exercising leadership from the very top of an organization. However, materials dedicated specifically at those in “middle management” have been much harder to find. Because those in the position of being both leader and follower have a much different point of view, this book is valuable to someone conforming theoretical leadership concepts into their day-to-day jobs.

As usual, Maxwell lays out in easy-to-follow sections and lists the specifics of his concept of 360° leaders. Maxwell also completes the picture with vivid and relatable stories to illustrate his points, making it easy for the reader to translate the concepts into concrete action steps.

I heartily recommend this as an important read for anyone who finds themselves in the middle of their organization and wants to maximize their influence over their portion of it and its entirety.

Joseph

Other resources: http://www.360degreeleader.com/

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze®.com <http://booksneeze®.com/> book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 <http://www.access.gpo.gov/nara/cfr/waisidx_03/16cfr255_03.html> : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Too much Martha and not enough Mary?

2011-11-09T05:58:00.001-06:00

In the Gospel of Luke, it is recorded that Jesus visited the home of two sisters, Martha and Mary. From the time he arrived, Martha was distracted with preparations things to do to care for her guest, while Mary simply sits at the Lord's feet. Martha is upset at having to do all the work on her own and tells Jesus to tell Mary to help her. Luke records that Jesus's response is that Martha is worried about and focusing on all the wrong things, while Mary is solely focused on what is truly important, her relationship with Christ. Evidently Martha understood His words because she, Mary, and their brother Lazarus would go on to become close friends of Jesus.

In his new book Beautiful Outlaw, John Eldredge (@johneldredge) describes Jesus's response to Martha as disruptively honest but mercifully gracious. Martha apparently wanted a relationship with Jesus, as she invited Him to her house. But, then she is too distracted to enjoy His company. Perhaps Martha's love language is acts of service, and she feels she is expressing affection for the Lord by doing so many things. Or perhaps, like many people, she is uncomfortable without having something to do, preferring the exhaustion of business to the peace of a more narrow focus.

For some, being hyper-occupied to the point of overwhelm with things to do and places to go is a way to gain social status. We are impressed by those who can multitask or who put in long hours of labor, though it may sacrifice their health or relationships. For others, busyness is a way to avoid something painful or uncomfortable, because with so wide a focus, no one thing can have much impact on them. They quickly move on to something else to think about, often leaving a problem to fester or issue to remain unresolved.

Mary, in contrast, seems to easily be able to turn off or turn away from all the other potential distractions from their guest and give Him all her attention. And Jesus believes this to be the higher honor, because he cares more about Mary and Martha's hearts, their spirits, more than their meal they'll share or how clean the house is. How easy it is for Mary and Jesus to come into a relationship when they are focused on each other and what is truly important.

I was recently challenged by my most trusted adviser that I have had too much Martha in me recently, and not enough Mary. Focusing too much on things to do, places to go, other voices to listen too, I've been distracted away from those things most important to me. I've forgotten that not everyone is impressed with busyness, and sometimes the most loving thing you can do for someone is to make them the sole focus of your attention.

Question: How do you keep from becoming too much of a Martha?

Wise enough to know what I do not

2011-10-31T06:31:00.001-05:00

My friend David taught me a valuable lesson about the limits of wisdom and the folly of overconfidence. I met David about 5 years ago, and at first, we didn't get along. We were both members of a social group, and when the group would meet, we'd each have some job to perform.

I took the group very seriously, and whatever job I was assigned I did as well as I could. But David did not. He would talk about things way off topic. He was distracted by other things, and so he was distracting me and others from our purpose. His lack of ability to focus was a constant irritant.

Then, one day I received an e-mail informing me that he'd taken his own life. I learned that many months before, not long before I met him, he'd been diagnosed with a disease like Alzheimer's, and would experience diminishing mental abilities for the rest of his life. Evidently his mother suffered from the same condition, and it pained David greatly to see her mentally fail the last years of her life.

Whether David's choice was right or wrong is not my subject. The limits of my knowledge and poor judgement is. I judged David's poor performance and mental sloppiness to be the result of a lack of desire on his part. I considered him to be an inconsiderate annoyance. Until I learned that David was really doing the best he could.

In 2007 and 2008, Lute Olson, the head basketball coach at the University of Arizona for 25 years, displayed erratic and uncharacteristic behavior. He fired two different assistant coaches who he had selected as his successor, divorced his wife, and had sudden leaves of absence from work. After all this, his doctors and family announced that Lute had suffered a stroke some time ago that had not been diagnosed until recently. They believed his unusual recent behavior was caused by the damage the blood clot had caused to his brain.

I think of my friend David and Coach Olson reminders to me that things are not always what they seem, and that it is easy to think that I have most, or all, of the relevant information when in fact, I do not. I have learned that an important part of wisdom is to consider what I do not know along what I do.

How do you overcome the overconfidence of thinking you have all the facts?

Her name means wisdom

2011-10-24T10:57:00.001-05:00

It is common to associate wisdom with age. Persons with more birthdays are often thought to be wise simply because they've had more opportunities to learn from life. But age and wisdom are sometimes not correlated. It takes an act of will and a bit of skill to turn a life experience into wisdom. The old aren't always wise.

Nor are the young always foolish. Some young people are skilled enough and intentional enough to gain wisdom faster than they gain birthdays. One of those persons is my wife.

She's does not have a ton of candles on her birthday cake, but she has turned the few years she's had into an amazing amount of wisdom.

Her spiritual gift is discernment. (I'm going to blog about that sometime.) She's used that gift to develop a special wisdom I've learned to rely on. She can almost instinctively discern what spiritual matters are at work behind what is easily seen and heard.

Her name, Sonya, is derived from the Greek name Sophia, which literally means wisdom. For example, the word philosophy is from phileo (brotherly love) and sophia (wisdom), and means the love of wisdom.

My recommendation to all you out there who, like me, seek out wisdom is this:

1) Don't confuse age with wisdom. There are old fools and young sages.

2) You'll know you've found wisdom by the fruit of the teaching, and the heart of the teacher connecting to yours.

Keep seeking out wisdom! It's out there, and not always in the obvious places.

Can't put down Beautiful Outlaw

2011-10-12T17:30:00.001-05:00

I've only managed to read the first few chapters of Beautiful Outlaw by John Eldredge, but I'm already gaining a deeper and more meaningful understanding of Jesus. John has such a great ability to make the Biblical accounts something that I can relate to, putting things into an understandable perspective from 2,000 years away.

John's Ransomed Heart Ministries also has lots of free resources to go with the book, including videos, audio podcasts, and readers guides.

If you are interesting in seeing a side of Jesus not often highlighted and exhorted, I hope you'll join me in reading Beautiful Outlaw by John Eldredge.

www.beautifuloutlaw.net

Quitter by Jon Acuff

2011-10-12T17:03:00.003-05:00

Title: Quitter: Closing the Gap Between Your Day Job and YourDream Job

Author: Jon Acuff

Rating: Right for you if you are , but you wantto be a

Reason for Reading: Jon is the author of the Stuff Christians Likeblog, and now his own blog at jonacuff.com about leadership and business. As a fan of Dave Ramsey, I couldn’t help butnotice when Jon joined Dave’s team and took his writing and speaking endeavorsfrom his side gig to his day job.

Format: Audiobook, unabridged, read by the author,downloaded from iTunes

Summary: Quitter is the lessons Jon learned inchanging his dream job into his day job. After moving from employer to employer almost habitually, all in acareer field he later decided was not what he was meant for, Jon started followinghis dream of writing and speaking in addition to his day job. He worked his dream and still kept his dayjob until the right opportunity came along for his dream job to become his dayjob. Told in his rapturous style ofhumor, Jon describes how he learned to honor his employer, care for his family,and pursue his calling. And how you cando it, too.

Review: I was blown away by Quitter. It has great content about a difficulttopic. It isn’t easy to write about thepractical realities of personal development and life change. Spouting on and on about theory and conceptsisn’t too challenging. Describing inreal terms, in manageable steps, and in useful phrases how one changes onehabits and improves ones life is difficult. Jon does just that.
If you are looking ahead into yourfuture and considering a change from being a to being a ,after reading this, you’ll feel like you got a graduate degree in personalcareer change. If you tell yourself,“I’d go for it IF I could hear how someone else did it first”, then Quitterneeds to be on your reading list or your iPod.

Joseph

Other resources: www.quitterbook.com

Books in the queue

2011-10-11T16:46:00.000-05:00

Here's what I'm reading and should post reviews from in the future:

Quitter: Closing the Gap Between Your Day Job and Your Dream Job by Jon Acuff (www.quitterbook.com)
Beautiful Outlaw: Experience the Playful, Disruptive, Extravagent Personality of Jesus by John Eldredge (www.beautifuloutlaw.net)
EntreLeadership: 20 Years of Practical Business Wisdom from the Trenches by Dave Ramsey (www.entreleadership.com)
The 360° Leader by John Maxwell (http://www.360degreeleader.com)

It will take me a little while to get to all of them, but I will. The review of Quitter will be up next, then Beautiful Outlaw.

If you have any suggestions for what you'd like me to read, send me a comment!

Overwhelmed by wisdom

2011-10-11T16:37:00.001-05:00

Seems these days it is easy to be overwhelmed by life. So many things we dobig, or not at all. We don't just watch a movie, we do a movie marathon. We tryto "collect them all", and strive to be not just up to date, but upto the minute.

This isn't necessarily bad. There are some things you wouldn't mind beingoverwhelmed by, such as:

if your coworkers had a party to celebrate your latest achievement,
if your adult child thanked you for all the times you were strict with them because it built their character, or
if your spouse went all out for your anniversary.

Wisdom can be overwhelming also. When you are exposed tosomeone with great presence, someone with whom you feel you could spend hoursand still not hear everything they have to teach you or impart into you life,you are overwhelmed by wisdom. Or in the presence of a great library of booksand materials, each being one you could spend hours reading and digesting, withthe next one there waiting for you

There is plenty of media out there that would overwhelm your senses and yourtime, but underwhelm your intellect and creativity. There is also acornucopia of media that would do both, where the time and attention you spendis an investment, in your mind, in your heart, and in your life.

This blog is intended to help you find that kind of material, the good stuffthat will make a difference in your life. If you are going to bebombarded by messages anyways, if what you are exposed to will influence youwhether you like it or not, you might as well choose what you read and to whatyou listen. Be overwhelmed in a good way.

Love & Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs

2011-09-19T17:39:00.000-05:00

Title: Love & Respect
Author: Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
Rating: Good
Reason for Reading: I received this book through Thomas Nelson’s BookSneeze program.
Summary: The book is based on Eggerichs’ research on Ephesians 5:33, where the apostle Paul commands husbands to love their wives and wives to respect their husbands. Rather than merely focusing on the importance of unconditional love, the book adds the counterbalance of the need for unconditional respect, specifically for men. Eggerichs details how all throughout scripture, from his years of marital counseling, his parents’ marriage, and his own marriage, this principle of wives needing unconditional love and husbands needing unconditional respect works.
The author describes three cycles, starting with The Crazy Cycle, where a wife’s disrespectful attitude towards her husband causes him to be have an unloving attitude towards her, or vice versa, and the cycle repeats. But, there is also the Energizing Cycle, where a wife’s respect or husband’s love motivates the other. And ultimately, there is the Rewarded Cycle, where a wife’s respect or husband’s love is offered regardless of their spouse’s behavior, but as a sign of reverence for Christ.
Review: I found this book to be an exceptional treatise on marriage, based on both scripture and the author’s personal experience, of how men and women are different, speaking different languages and responding to different emotions, but are beautifully designed to work together. There is a ton of valuable insight into why you think and feel the way you do, why your spouse thinks and feels differently, and how to better understand these dynamics to improve your marriage. If you don’t understand why you and your spouse are different, and how to deal with it, this is a must read. If you want your marriage to be an example for your children and your community, this is a must read.
Devon
Other resources: http://www.love andresopect.com
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

The Grace of God by Andy Stanley

2011-09-06T16:35:00.000-05:00

Title: The Grace of God
Author: Andy Stanley
Rating: Good
Reason for Reading: I received this book through the Booksneeze program.

Summary: The author demonstrates how God’s grace is woven all through the Bible, both Old Testament and New. His motivation was a comment by his wife that she preferred the God of the New Testament over the Old. But Stanley shows how grace is a consistent message throughout, reflected in familiar biblical characters and stories not typically used as examples of grace. The centrality of grace within the Bible is firmly established.
Review: I really enjoyed how the author focused on grace and grace alone. Through examples pulled from all over the span of the Bible, he finds how grace is present and indeed essential to God’s relationship with man. I found every example meaningful, whether it used a Biblical character I was familiar with or not. I’d recommend this book for biblical scholars and non-scholars alike who want to reconnect with how God’s grace makes all the difference.
Devon
Other resources: None
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

The Final Summit by Andy Andrews

2011-04-11T10:46:00.000-05:00

Title: The Final Summit
Author: Andy Andrews

Rating: Good
Reason for Reading: I have read several of Andy’s other writings, including The Traveler’s Gift, which this book is the sequel of.

Summary: David Ponder, the protagonist of The Traveler’s Gift is back, having another experience meeting great people from history. As with the previous book, there are ones you’ve heard of, and ones you probably haven’t. But while the first book is a very personal journey, this one has much more broad implications. The travelers are being assembled to answer a challenging question, “What does mankind need?”. And David has been selected to lead the group in finding this answer. At a difficult moment in his life, he finds himself pressed into a leadership role with the fate of mankind hanging in the balance, and a huge cast of characters looking to him for answers.
Review: As usual, Andrews mixes in history and philosophy into a beautiful narrative about guiding principles of humanity. The characters are vivid and breath life into the concepts discussed, personalizing and humanizing the deliberations about what quality mankind needs the most. The character’s search for truth is quite a ride, one which I think readers will find enjoyable and inspirational.
Devon
Other resources: www.andyandrews.com or www.thefinalsummit.com
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Your Money God's Way by Amie Streater

2010-10-05T15:22:00.001-05:00

Title: Your Money God’s Way
Author: Amie Streater
Rating: Good

Reason for Reading: I received this book through the BookSneeze program. The title jumped right off the list of available books as one Dawn and I would like to read. This is my review, but I am hoping she’ll read it and provide a review as well.
Summary: Streater describes the 7 money myths she has discovered from years of serving as the pastor for financial stewardship at two churches. These myths spawn from counterfeit convictions, misunderstandings of scriptural direction about how Christian’s should handle money. The include enabling the misbehavior of others, viewing the accumulation of wealth as evil, or expecting divine providence to rescue one from oneself.
Review: This is an outstanding book. It provides sound biblical advice about how Christians should put the money God has entrusted to them to do his work, while including funny, personable, relatable stories. The stories are even jaw-dropping sometimes, but they certainly illustrate the point that a misunderstanding, or outright ignorance, of scriptural guidance can lead Christians to having a financial life much less than what God has planned for them. And, Streater includes methods to correct one’s past mistakes and infuse the true convictions into your spirit and your habits.
I highly recommend this book to any Christian who thinks their financial life might not be all that it should be, and to the fellow Christians who know and love them. It can be hard to give someone else financial advice. If that puts you off, or if your relationship with someone who is struggling isn’t close enough to share, buy this book and put it in their hands. There is a wealth of knowledge here that will help any Christian.
Devon
Other resources: www.amiestreater.com
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

The Next Level: What Insiders Know About Executive Success by Scot Eblin

2010-10-05T09:12:00.004-05:00

Another book from Thomas Nelson publishers I am interested in reading. This is about assuming a new role of leadership, with the wisdom of the insiders, what they do and how they do it. Just like an interview with a wise, experienced leader and provide years worth of insight into a brief conversation, I'm hoping this book will help an outsider like me feel more comfortable with the mantle of leadership.

http://michaelhyatt.com/three-common-mistakes-new-leaders-make-and-how-to-avoid-them.html

Outlive Your Life by Max Lucado

2010-09-30T14:33:00.002-05:00

Title: Outlive Your Life
Author: Max Lucado
Rating: Good
Reason for Reading: I received this book from the BookSneeze.com book review program.

Summary: This book is a siren call to live out the principles of a Christian spiritual walk. Lucado interweaves stories of the apostles and the early church with contemporary examples of how to put your Christian faith into action. It includes inspiring accounts of individuals and groups who did more than talk the talk, they walked the walked and the effects of their live outlived them.
Review: Max has prepared another book just at the right time. At a time when so many people are out of work, Max reminds everyone that there is always an opportunity to do something that will make a difference and potentially outlive you. Lucado is highlighting the book of Acts, which is often overlooked in the study of the Bible. As the name would imply, it instructs us not how to “be” a follower of Christ, but to “do” the following.
If you feel like you are spinning your wheels, like what you do doesn’t matter, or that your faith isn’t manifest in your actions, this book will remind you, instruct you, and inspire you to do things, take actions, and make the difference God built you for.
Devon
Other resources: www.maxlucado.com
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

The Orange Revolution by Adrian Gostick and Chester Elton

2010-09-21T10:48:00.000-05:00

The authors have posted a guest post on Michael Hyatt's blog about their new book on the power of a great team to transform an organization.

Why Great Teams Tell Great Stories

Take a look!

100 Prayers God Loves to Hear 100 Praise Songs by Stephen Elkins

2010-09-08T19:15:00.002-05:00

Title: 100 Prayers God Loves to Hear 100 Praise Songs
Author: Stephen Elkins
Rating: Good for you if…you need ideas or want to introduce prayer
Reason for Reading: I got this book as a part of the BookSneeze Program. As always, my opinion is completely my own and not affected by getting the book free. For more details, check out our Full Disclosure statement.
Summary: 100 Prayers is a book of prayers for children. The prayers vary from traditional prayers that most of us prayed as a child, to prayers written and prayed by famous people, to original prayers written by the author. Each prayer is accompanied by text that explains the prayer, a prayer thought, and a song on one of the two CDs.
Review: I have mixed feelings about this set. The things I like about it are that the prayers and readings are short enough to be morning or evening devotions/prayer time with small children. I like the accompanying sound tracks that are full of classic songs as well as original compositions. I like the colorful and vibrant art work.
There are things I don't really like about the book. For instance, each prayer is accompanied by a "My Little Prayer Reminder". However, these quotes and thoughts are too deep for small children to comprehend. Some of them were too intellectual for me to comprehend! I'm also confused as to who the target audience is for the book. The illustrations look to be geared toward small children (my 9 year old claimed they were "babyish"), but many of the prayers are geared toward school-age children. This is just a personal pet peeve, but there are words highlighted in different colors…the words aren't special or important words, they're just words (sometimes the word "the" is a different color than the other words on the line). I feel that the different colors would have added to the overall feel of the book if they highlighted important words or the theme of the prayer, instead of random words.
Each prayer has a song referenced at the top of the page. At first, I liked that. I thought it would be cute to hear all these prayers geared toward children being sung by children. However, that's not the case. Some of the songs are the prayers put to music (though not word-for-word), some of the songs are on the same theme as the prayer (America the Beautiful is paired with a prayer written by Abraham Lincoln), but some of the songs I don't understand why they were chosen to go with the prayer.
Final Thoughts: I think this is a great resource for parents who want to introduce the idea of prayer to young children. I don't know that I would read all of the words on the page to the child as some of the concepts will be very hard, if not impossible, to explain to small children. We might use it as a resource for our older child to lead devotions for the family, but I can't see this becoming a classic in our home.

Dawn

Giveaway of The Heart Mender

2010-09-08T15:21:00.001-05:00

Unfortunately, no one gave us any contact information in order to receive a FREE copy of The Heart Mender by Andy Andrews. After months of trying to give away an AWESOME book on our blog, we had to realized that no one was interested in doing what it took to get this amazing book. We have donated it to a Christian Library in Indiana that serves a county in need due to the automotive crisis.

Thanks for reading and participating!

Dawn

The Butterfly Effect by Andy Andrews

2010-09-08T15:14:00.003-05:00

Title:
The Butterfly EffectAuthor: Andy AndrewsRating: Good
Reason for Reading: I received an advance copy of this book as part of the BookSneeze program through Thomas Nelson Publishers. The opinion below is my own and is not affected in any way by receiving this book for free. For more information, check out our Full Disclosure page.
Summary: The Butterfly Effect discusses the scientific theory-turned-fact that one action affects events all around the globe. Andrews starts with the scientific theory and then makes application through various figures in history. Seemingly insignificant people are involved in very important events and Andrews explains how that person's contribution helped to shape the world in which we live today.
Review: Can a butterfly flap its wings and create a hurricane on the other side of the world? Andrews explains this thought and many associated with it in his book, The Butterfly Effect.
Andrews introduces readers to the humble beginnings of this seemingly ridiculous theory, and then shows how it rocked the scientific community. He takes the heart of the theory and, in a style completely his own, walks the reader through the annals of time and how one person at one moment "fluttered his wings" and affected the entire world. The great thing about this book isn't that we're taken down a dusty historical road and learn of one man's seemingly small contribution and how it affects us all today. The great thing about this book is how Andrews then introduces another man and how he changed the world, and how another person influenced that, and so on. Andrews draws the reader down a riveting and seemingly endless path of influential people who were only influential because they influenced another person who influenced someone else, etc.
In summary, this book is a must-read for EVERYONE. I was in tears by the end of the book. This book helped me realize that something seemingly insignificant that I do can and will affect the world for all time.
Dawn
Other resources: http://www.andyandrews.com/video/butterfly-effect/

The Boy Who Changed the World

2010-09-07T16:01:00.000-05:00

Title: The Boy Who Changed the World
Author: Andy Andrews
Rating: Good
Reason for Reading: I received this book through the BookSneeze program of Thomas Nelson Publishers. Andrews is one of my favorite authors.

Summary: TBWCtW is actually about several persons, each of whom did something that changed the world. Andrews tells the story backwards, starting with the last boy in the chain, then to the person who affected him, then to the person who affected that person, and so on. The conclusion is that the chain could keep going back farther and farther, demonstrating that their actions had impacts that ripple through time into the future.
Review: TBWCtW is a childrens story with a powerful message about how powerful each individual is. Some of the persons highlighted are famous, with names that would be commonplace or accomplishments worthy of monuments. But others are obscure and their actions seem unimportant outside of the story Andrews has written. Andrews weaves all this together in a narrative that entertains and challenges the mind to try to grasp how today’s actions influence the future of everyone. TBWCtW is highly recommended as a great addition to any child’s library.
Devon
Other resources: http://www.andyandrews.com
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul

2010-08-17T23:08:00.003-05:00

Title: Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul
Author: John Eldredge
Rating: Good
Reason for Reading: This book was recommended by one of my favorite authors, Dave Ramsey, and has been on my book list for some time. When Thomas Nelson's Booksneeze program made the Revised and Expanded edition available, I jumped at the chance to get the book.

Summary: Wild at Heart is an in-depth study and commentary on Christian masculinity, both in biblical and modern context. Eldredge describes much in the Bible that describes man as an image bearer of God in the world, but not just the parts of God that people are often most comfortable with. He challenges the skin deep, nice guy depiction of the Creator that can be found too easily. He describes God as a warrior, fighting to free his chosen people from bondage in Egypt, fighting demons and rebellious angels jealous of His power and authority, and fighting to return the hearts of his children to His ways.
Eldredge describes how the fall of man has robbed him of this glorious role to play in the universe, this drama between the forces of good and evil, right and wrong. Despite failure and rejection, the soul of man still bears the image of the warrior God, hungry for a battle to fight, and beauty to rescue, and an adventure to have. Eldredge rejects the call from society for men to be de-clawed or disarmed from the spiritual battle taking place in the world today. He describes how Christ was crucified for challenging earthly power and authority, fighting the injustice present in the world, and men are called to continue this struggle in order to follow him.
Review: I thoroughly enjoyed reading Wild at Heart, and would not be surprised if I find this in a regular rotation on my book list, reading it annually. It is not often that one finds an author who can both describe the failure of men and the praise the spiritual masculinity God has created man to represent. For any man struggling with doubts about his masculinity or questions about how to be what he was built to be, I strongly recommend Wild at Heart. For the women who love these men, who wonder why Christian men are often torn between their nature and what society expects of them, or between their capacity to demonstrate the glory of God with their flawed, failing, and sinful nature, I would recommend this book as well.
Devon
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Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com <http://BookSneeze.com> book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255 <http://www.access.gpo.gov/nara/cfr/waisidx_03/16cfr255_03.html> : "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."

You Can Be Everything God Wants You To Be by Max Lucado

2010-06-24T14:14:00.002-05:00

Title: You Can Be Everything God Wants You To Be
Author: Max Lucado
Rating: Good

Reason for Reading: I acquired this book through Thomas Nelson Publishers' BookSneeze program in exchange for a review of it. The publisher has in no way influenced the content of this review, and the views expressed are solely my own.
Summary: You Can Be Everything God Wants You To Be is a representation of the material in Max's 2005 book Cure For The Common Life, which I have also read and reviewed. YCBEGWYTB includes most of the stories, inspirational material, and principles covered in Cure. What is excluded is the detailed appendix at the back of Cure that lists Bible versus to read and questions about your past to answer.
Review: The sticker on my copy of YCBEGWYTB describes the book as the "perfect gift for the graduate". Why that might be a bit of publisher hyperbole, I find that it would be an excellent gift for a recent high school or college graduate. As the book describes, most formal educations do little to help the individual find their "sweet spot", that place Max describes as where one's strengths, one's everyday life, and God's glory all overlap. Many graduates find them selves looking ahead at the next stage of their life wondering what's next. A diploma or degree doesn't guarantee a job, much less a personally-satisfying one. This book will help the recipient take a new look at themselves, their future, and what their life has prepared them for. I recommend it for graduates, and anyone looking at their life ahead wondering what God has planned for them.
Devon
Other resources: www.thomasnelson.com

Hermie and Friends "Who Is In Charge Anyway?" by Max Lucado

2010-06-16T19:49:00.005-05:00

Rating: Good

Link to the DVD at Amazon.com: Who Is in Charge Anyway?

Reason for Watching: We received this as a part of the BookSneeze program from Thomas Nelson Publishers. We received this DVD for free in exchange for an honest review. Our opinions are our own and are not influenced by receiving the DVD for free.

Summary: "Who Is In Charge Anyway" is about growing up with God. Freddie the Flea hears his friends wondering what is special about fleas. So, Freddie starts to wonder himself, all about what God has planned for him. Freddie asks God why he is the way he is. God reveals to Freddie that He has worked in his friends' lives to make them they way they are. Flashbacks take the viewer along to see the other Hermie and Friends characters in childhood. Freddie learns that God has made each of them with special gifts. And that God has something special planned for him as well. After Freddie learns more about how God is working in his life, he works with other fleas to tell people about God. Freddie's special talent of evangelism is shown at the end, providing young viewers a great example of how they can share their faith through their words and actions.

Review: Our little one (age 8) found that "Who Is In Charge Anyway" was a great DVD. He really enjoyed the flashbacks into the previously unseen childhoods of the Hermie characters. This is a new look at the same Hermie characters he's grown to love. He highly recommends this for kids of all ages. Grownups will find that the DVD teaches a great lesson about God has made everyone with special gifts that they can share with others, and that everyone grows into who God has made them to be over time. This DVD is everything you could want: funny, clean, and with a deep and powerful meaning.

Devon

The Heart Mender by Andy Andrews

2010-05-31T14:41:00.005-05:00

Title: The Heart Mender

Author: Andy Andrews

Rating: Good

Reason for Reading: We received this as a part of the BookSneeze program from Thomas Nelson Publishers. I received this book for free in exchange for an honest review. My opinions are my own and are not influenced by receiving the book for free.

Summary: The Heart Mender is a story within a story. As such, there are many layers and levels to the book and the lessons to be learned from the book. At the beginning of the book, the author discovers a mysterious object buried in his yard. While trying to unravel the mystery of the object, Andrews takes the readers on a journey through time in which the main characters of the story learn to overcome their intense grief and disappointment by discovering the beauty and healing power of second chances.

Review: The Heart Mender is a beautiful and poignant story about the miraculous power of forgiveness and second chances. While fans of The Traveler's Gift might feel bereft because of the lack of an in-your-face, step-by-step guide to the moral of the story, they can be reassured that the lessons typical of an "Andy" book are all still there. These lessons are cleverly and seamlessly woven into the dialogue and the plot of this tale. The author assists readers in uncovering the deeper meanings and lessons of the book by providing a reader's guide in the back. Andrews truly is a master storyteller and The Heart Mender is a wonderful story.

This book is a definite must-read.

Dawn

Other resources:

BookSneeze gave us a SECOND copy of The Heart Mender with the express instructions that we give it away on this blog! So, we'll be having a contest. To enter, read the following rules and then answer the question: When has a second chance (or the lack of a second chance) drastically changed your life?

Rules:

1. Answer the question in about 100 words using the comment feature of the blog.

2. Do not include any personally identifying information.

3. All entries must be received by midnight June 30, 2010.

4. Be honest. We prefer integrity over entertainment.

Devon and Dawn will choose a winner from the entries that follow the above guidelines. Winner will be notified via email and posted on the blog. Odds of winning will depend on number of entries submitted. Devon and Dawn reserve the right to use all entries in future blog posts. Only one book will be given away. Book was provided by Thomas Nelson Publishers and the BookSneeze program. Our review was not influenced by the free book, nor the number of books given to us. Devon and Dawn created the rules of the contest and these rules were not a part of the BookSneeze program.

Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman's Soul by John & Stasi Eldredge

2010-05-31T13:22:00.003-05:00

TITLE: Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman's Soul

AUTHOR: John & Stasi Eldredge

RATING: Good

REASON FOR READING: I acquired this book through Thomas Nelson Publishers' BookSneeze program in exchange for a review of it. The publisher has in no way influenced the content of this review, and the views expressed are solely my own. This is a book I've had on my wish list for sometime, so the opportunity to acquire it through the BookSneeze program was seredipity. This book was also recommended by Dave Ramsey, along with many other authors I am reading at present.

SUMMARY: Captivating is all about the soul of woman as created by God. Starting with Eve, the authors describe the heart and soul of women, including the fictional characters found in age-old and modern day stories, and the author's themselves. Weaving in references from Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Sound of Music and Cinderella, John & Stasi describe how every woman is built to be romanced, to be an irreplaceable role in an adventure, and to be beautiful. The authors also describe how these qualities affect a woman's relationships with their husbands, parents, siblings, and children.

REVIEW: This book is intense, full of material both scriptural, personal, and pop-cultural. It will challenge your view of yourself and how you relate to the women in your life. The few pages the authors use to translate ezer kenegdo from the Old Testament have already improved my relationship with Dawn. As with the other Edlredge book I've read [Epic], Captivating is full of drama, describing modern day, earthly experiences as taking place within a larger context on the spiritual plane. The book is full of adventure and romance as Satan has a particular hatred for woman, God's image bearer for relationships and closeness, and God seeks to return the hearts of His fallen daughters to Him. This book is challenging and eye-opening, but comforting and healing as well. I highly recommend Captivating.

Devon

Rating System

2010-05-06T13:43:00.001-05:00

Welcome to our book reviewing blog. Devon and I are avid readers. As such, we find that books tend to fall into three distinct categories: good, bad, or right for you if...

Good: A book with the rating "good" is a great read for anyone. Everyone can learn from its principles and applying them to life. We definitely recommend checking out a copy of the book from your local library or picking it up at a used book store. This book will be a treasure.

Bad: Some books are just bad and not fit for anyone to read. They may be written poorly, not researched well enough, or even contradictory to its own advice. Sometimes the book's "value" just isn't worth the time invested. We don't suggest the book is worth reading from cover to cover; however, you may want to skim it or use it to make your wobbly table less wobbly.

Right for you if...: The books that fall into this category are books that are good for some people, but pointless for others. If we give a book the "right for you if..." rating, you can look at the end of the review to see under which circumstances we feel the book is "right for you".

Please understand that these are our personal views/ratings of the books. This blog is for informational purposes only and we do not wish to ruin the careers of authors. We are simply offering a you a way to guide your reading.

If you disagree with a rating we give a book, feel free to leave a comment. Please make sure that the comment is well written and not accusatory, inflaming, or combative. We reserve the right to refuse to publish a comment.

The Traveler's Gift by Andy Andrews

2010-05-06T13:42:00.000-05:00

Title: The Traveler's Gift

Author: Andy Andrews

Rating: Good

Reason for Reading: This book was recommended by Dawn as one I would enjoy. She was certainly right on three fronts. First, it's fun to read. It plays like an action-adventure novel or mystery at times. Second, it is educational. The wisdom contained within is impossible to miss as one reads through the narrative. And third, the traveler visits different moments in history, and I am a history buff (but that quality is not necessary to enjoy and learn from the book). This book was purchased, and no compensation was provided for this review.

Summary: The Traveler's Gift is the description of Andy Andrews' Seven Decisions that determine personal success. Andy read 200-300 biographies of successful persons. From this, he identified seven principles at work int heir lives. The decisions they made led to their successes and revealed these principles. The book introduces the reader to each decision by taking the traveler, David Ponder, on a journey to meet an historical figure. These seven people of great influence each teach him a gift. Written like a novel or historical fiction, the narrative the author has composed teaches while it entertains.

Review: Not a self-help in the traditional sense of diagnosing the reader's problem and then providing the authors prescription, The Traveler's Gift instead walks the reader through the decisions with the protagonist, David Ponder. Unemployed and struggling, he begins to wonder if he can find success in life, or if he's just cursed. Through his travels, figures like Harry S. Truman, Christopher Columbus, and Anne Frank give him the decisions that determine personal success. Their advice to him is the author's advice to the reader, though you won't feel preached to. The advice is more like the Maltese Falcon or Holy Grail of a suspense movie or a mystery novel. You won't find the author suffering from a superiority complex. Nor will you find these solutions too shallow to be followed in real life. No "visualize" or "think outside the box" directives that go nowhere in 3-dimensional life. The reader can appreciate how real these principles are to the individuals David meets. Andrew's descriptions of them and their circumstances are compelling, even to a non-history buff. As you read, you'll find parallels to your own life and challenges, even if they don't compare to the Battle of Gettysburg in historical importance. Andrews asserts that everything you do matters, and therefore, are valuable when done well.

Reading like a novel, but educating like a self-help book, The Traveler's Gift is a must-read for all. Brief, compelling, and insightful enough to read every year, put it in your library, or that of a friend.

Devon

Other resources: www.andyandrews.com

Why Seek Out Wisdom?

2010-05-06T13:40:00.001-05:00

One of my favorite quotes is from Sam Levinson, "You must learn from the mistakes of others. You can't possibly live long enough to make them all yourself." This makes seeking out wisdom seem so logical. Compare two people, one who learns only from his own mistakes, and one who learns from both his and those of others. Which would you prefer as a counselor? Which would you prefer to have your life in his hands? Which would you prefer to be? Whether you are selecting a book to read, a friend to ask for advice, a class to take, or a leader to follow, seeking wisdom is a key step to your success. No one really is a self-made man. Everyone has learned from what they have been exposed to. So, expose yourself to that which improve your likelihood of success.

Another quote from Albert Einstein states that we can't solve problems with the same kind of thinking that created them. Makes sense, doesn't it? Doing the best we could so far got us here. Want to go someplace else? That will require doing better. How can we do better in the future than what was our best was in the past? It requires greater thinking. Not necessarily bigger, but better. Think that you are as good now as you'll ever be? Think again. You mind, your emotional awareness, your spirit can grow, be strengthened, and find hope. You are right now growing and changing into what you will become. You can determine what you'll become by deciding how you'll change. We believe reading to be a key ingredient in this process.

We recommend you look through our blog for books that speak to you, that sound like they have some wisdom to impart. Then read them, actively. Dig into them with focus. Take notes. Highlight. Find a friend to share them with. You don't have to purchase them. There are good libraries all over the place where you can get these books for free, or next to nothing on inter-library loan. Some you may want to purchase, so you can keep them in your library, or pass them along to a friend. Request them as gifts from those people who ask you what you want. Find a used bookstore where you can get a dogeared copy that someone else has already highlighted. One of the books I'll blog about cost me just 10 cents at a used book store, honestly. There is no correlation between what a book costs and how valuable you'll find it. Some will pay rich rewards, no matter what you pay for them.

We will always cite why we decided to read the books we review, and where we acquired a copy. Some books are from our personal library, some we've checked out of our local library, some we've gotten for free in exchange for an honest review of the material. We'll always let you know. Our comments belong to us, and will not be influenced by how we got the material. We request your comments about the books we review, whether you agree with us or don't. We also welcome your recommendations if there is something you think we'd like to read.

Happy reading!
Devon

Tithing by Douglas LeBlanc

2010-05-06T13:33:00.001-05:00

Title: Tithing Test Me in This

Author: Douglas Leblanc

Rating: Good for you if...

Reason for Reading: I received this book as a part of the BookSneeze program by Thomas Nelson publishers. I chose it over other books, because I'm a person who tithes and I wanted to read others' views of tithing.

Summary: The book Tithing is a religious journalist's view of the ancient practice of tithing. Through the stories of many people across the country, Leblanc tells the benefits of tithing. He uses real-life examples of people associated (or formerly associated) with the Episcopal Church to bring a face to tithing.

Leblanc uses the stories of these people to encourage the reader to return to the "ancient practice of tithing." The concepts of living simply and being generous are thoroughly discussed as well.

Review: As a practicing tither, I was excited by the possibilities presented in a book dedicated to the subject.

Though the book is interesting and fairly easy to read, it deals more with the politics of the Episcopal Church than tithing. Many of the biographies and anecdotes in the book don't even mention tithe or giving.

Unfortunately, I was bogged down enough by the church politics and so distracted by the numerous off-topic anecdotes that after 3 hours of reading over half of the book, I couldn't finish. The author gave a good effort, but the result fell far short of my hopes.

This book is good for you if...you are interested in Episcopal views of tithing, or just want to read various random people's thoughts on tithing and giving.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com <http://BookSneeze.com> book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255 <http://www.access.gpo.gov/nara/cfr/waisidx_03/16cfr255_03.html> : "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."

Living Life in the Zone

2010-05-06T13:32:00.003-05:00

Title: Living Life in the Zone

Author: Kyle Rote Jr. and Dr. Joe Pettigrew

Rating: Good

Reason for Reading: This book was provided to me free of charge by Thomas Nelson, Inc. through the BookSneeze program in exchange for preparing a book review and posting it to this blog. The content of this review is solely my own words and not influenced by receiving the book as compensation.

Summary: The book is a 40-day study for men. The book provides a short chapter for each of the 40 days. Each chapter includes citations of relevant bible verses, a profile of a sports or business figure and how they have applied that life principle in their life, three self-assessment questions, and an assignment to put the lesson into practice that day.

The subjects discussed include a man's relationship to God, improving your relationship with your wife, being a more effective father, you role as friend to your fellow man, and being a Christian man in your workplace.

Review: The lives up to its description as a spiritual game plan for men. While many self-improvement books provide only limited spiritual content, Living Life in the Zone is replete with spiritual discussions and biblical references. The book describes "the zone" it is teaching men to live in as not just a period of higher productivity, but higher effectiveness. It encourages self-examination to help men redefine their role as husband, father, friend, employee, manager, and spiritual leader.

The part of the book I found most helpful is the biographical sketch included in each day's reading. Under the subtitle Playmaker, this section uses a notable man's real life experience to illustrate the spiritual principle being at work in real life. Most of the men profiled are notable in the world of sports, like Tom Landry or Kurt Warner. Some of them are notable from the world of business, like David Green of Hobby Lobby or Mike Glenn of FedEx. Not all the examples are those of men who used the spiritual principle to succeed, nor are any of the stories too Pollyanna or unrealistic. Even though I was familiar with many of the men profiled, I learn something new from each Playmaker section. The authors have described their lives with details not covered in typical media coverage of athletes and coaches.

If you want to know more about these notable men from sports and business, something that reflects how their spirit and their relationship with God affected their lives, this book is a must read. You want to explore how you can have a deeper understanding of spiritual issues, if you are looking for a guide familiar with sports, business, and politics in the modern world, this book will deliver. This book is a fun read while providing a meaningful message. It is enjoyable and educational. I highly recommend this book for any man with a wife, a child, a job, and a relationship with God.

Devon

Other resources: http://www.inthezone.org

The Present

2010-05-06T13:32:00.001-05:00

Title: The Present

Author: Spencer Johnson, MD

Rating: Good

Reason for Reading: This book is from our personal library, purchased many years ago.

Summary: The book is a practical parable. Formatted as a story within a story, the prologue has Liz seeking advice from former co-worker Bill. She notices that Bill is doing much better now than when they worked together, while Liz is struggling at work and home. Bill says that his improved performance and greater enjoyment of life began when heard the story of The Present, and began applying its lessons. He is at first hesitant to tell Liz the story, knowing her skeptical nature, but Liz confirms she will give the story a fair chance, no matter how simplistic is seems.

The story is that of a young man's journey to maturity, guided by occasional visits to the old man who lives in his neighborhood. The old man knows The Present and gives it to the young man in small segments at different moments in his life. Not surprisingly, the segments are The Present, The Past, and The Future.

The epilogue has Liz meeting with Bill again after some time has passed. She has learned and applied the lessons from the story. She has shared the story with others, just has Bill shared it with her. The skeptic is now a believer in the simple truths contained within the parable.

Review: This book contains such profound truth in such simple words, it is striking in value. It is a quick read. I can go through the whole book in about two hours. This is a great book to keep in your library and read every year. It won't last through a New York to Los Angeles flight, probably not even between when you get through security and receive clearance to takeoff.

The story is compelling. It is easy to relate to the young man as he learns about The Present from the old man. His circumstances are easy to identify with for any reader. The language is so simple that the lessons are easy to digest, surprisingly so given their great value. If you are interested in simple truths to be found in a quick, easy read, find a copy of The Present.

Devon

Other resources: http://www.whomovedmycheese.com

Mastering The Seven Decisions by Andy Andrews

2010-05-06T13:28:00.001-05:00

Title: Mastering the Seven Decisions that Determine Personal Success, an Owner's Manual to the New York Times Bestseller The Traveler's Gift

Author: Andy Andrews

Rating: Good

Reason for Reading: After reading and thoroughly enjoying The Traveler's Gift (TTG), this book is the logical next step. Even a casual reader of TTG can tell Andrews has more to say than could be squeezed into the book. Mastering the Seven Decisions (Mt7D) provides the context and commentary to flesh out the lessons. This book was purchased and given to me as a gift, and no compensation was provided for this review.

Summary: While TTG is told as a narrative (in fact, some booksellers and reviewers categorized it as fiction!), this book is solidly in the non-fiction, self-help category. Andrews provides a chapter on each of the 7 Decisions, providing examples and insight. Each decision is also described in a letter to Andrews from a famous person, including General Norman Schwarzkopf and Amy Grant. Peppered throughout the book are exercises where Andrews prompts the reader to write down thoughts, feelings, fears, and affirmations. The exercises help the reader find the specific connection between the principles he describes and how work in their life.

Review: Andrews lives up to the promise in the books title that this is an owners manual to TTG. The expanded descriptions of the 7 Decisions help the reader understand how they have been at work in their life. And, perhaps most importantly, how the reader can use a greater understanding of them to be more successful in the future. The exercises are tough, but quite valuable. Have a notebook and pen nearby as you read the book. Completing the exercises will take time and lots of lined notebook paper, but the rewards are worth it. The reader will be facing their fears and failures, evaluating their past, dreaming about their future, and finding resources and actions to be more and do more. The reader's past will become a wonderful education in the principles behind personal success. The reader's looming challenges will become the ingredients in a successful life.

Unlike a lot of self-help books, reading Mt7D and completing the enclosed exercises will produce something personal and tangible. The reader will finish the book with specific steps they can take to make different choices, and consequently find the destiny of their dreams.

Devon

Other resources: www.andyandrews.com

Related book reviews: The Traveler's Gift

The Richest Man in Babylon

2010-05-06T13:14:00.001-05:00

Title: The Richest Man In Babylon

Author: George S. Clason

Rating: Good

Reason for Reading: This is from our personal library. I purchased this book for just 10 cents at a used book store.

Summary: The book is a compilation of separate writings the author prepared for banks and financial institutions in the early 20^th Century. Each chapter is a story all unto itself, but some of the characters appear in more than one or are referred to by other characters.

As the title indicates, the stories are set in ancient Babylon, which is described as a city of great wealth and knowledge. Many of the chapters revolve around Arkad, who is described as the richest man in the community, as he shares his knowledge of money with others.

The language used is similar to what you might read from the King James Version of the Bible, or from Shakespeare. Don't let that worry you. There isn't anything here you can't understand. Money is often referred to as "coins", banks as "moneylenders", and those in debt are sometimes slaves.

The author is using a historical setting to teach simple truths about money and finances that have survived the test of time. The parallels to modern life are not hard for the reader to draw.

Review: For me, this is a classic, a must read, and on my list of books to read at least once a year. It is a quick and easy pick up to have in your pocket while you are heading out to a place where you might read for a few minutes here or there. If you sit down to read it from front to back, it won't take you long. And because each chapter is a separate story, don't worry about losing your place.

The truths contained within are simple and common sense, but you won't be bored in reading it. The setting, the phraseology, the characters are rich with colors and flavors that will make learning fun. And the truths will help you with everything from day-to-day tasks like the importance of budgeting your expenses, to long term goals like purchasing a home or preparing for leaving your estate to your family.

I highly recommend The Richest Man in Babylon to everyone who wants to know how money works and how the decisions they make will affect their financial destiny.

Devon

Other resources: None

Everyone Communicates Few Connect

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Title: Everyone Communicates Few Connect

Author: John C. Maxwell

Rating: Good

Reason for Reading: This book was provided by Thomas Nelson publishers through their BookSneeze program in exchange for a review. The publisher has had no influence over the content of this review. The thoughts are solely my own.

Summary: Maxwell is a well-known leadership expert and speaker. He has prepared numerous books about leading an organization and the principles of personal success. This book specifically focuses on one important aspect of communication, that being how to develop a connection between speaker and listener.

Maxwell divides the book into two parts. The first describes the principles behind connection. Maxwell defines a connection as the quality of communication that increases the impact of the speaker on the listener. It operates at an emotional level between the persons involved. These principles are not the practical steps of public speaking, the kind of things one learns from speech class or Toastmasters International. Maxwell is describing the difference between those who speak, present, and write with little effect on their audience, and those who make a connection with the audience that makes their communication highly effective. It is the difference between those boring presentations and unnecessary meetings everyone has endured, and those speakers or presenters that have hit you right in the gut. Maxwell describes this ability to make a connection as a skill that can be learned, not just an inherent quality that some speakers naturally have.

The second part describes what connectors do, the preparations they make, the attitude they assume, and the focus they adopt. This includes finding common ground with the audience, making the experience enjoyable, and choosing inspirational messages.

Review: Maxwell uses humorous and insightful stories about himself and his career as a pastor, speaker, and teacher. He describes how he failed to connect early in his career, learned to connect, and is now teaching others to do so. Just the anecdotes about him are well worth the cost of the book. I found lots of situations to which I could relate, either as a speaker or a listener. The lessons gave me a new appreciation for how a leader can use these principles to increase the success of their team.

If you are a leader, you have to communicate. Whether you embrace this aspect of serving as a leader or cringe at it, this book will help you do it better. It is personable, funny, brief, and easy to read. You'll feel like you sat down with Maxwell as he personally told you how he does what he does. And that of course is the whole point! He connects with the reader, providing an example of what he is espousing.

Devon

Other resources: www.johnmaxwell.com

Beautiful Things Happen When a Woman Trusts God by Sheila Walsh

2010-05-06T13:12:00.001-05:00

Title: Beautiful Things Happen When a Woman Trusts God

Author: Sheila Walsh

Rating: Good

Reason for Reading: I received this as part of the Thomas Nelson Booksneeze program.

Summary: Beautiful Things is a book about Sheila Walsh's personal journey from stardom, through her breakdown, and finding her faith again. Sheila profiles people in the Bible who have trusted God through various circumstances.

Review: Beautiful Things is not what I expected. I fully expected a book more like Sandi Patti's Layers, where it chronicles a famous woman's journey through a difficult period of her life. However, Beautiful Things…is more like a Bible study than an autobiography. Sheila profiles lives of Biblical characters who have learned how to trust God in very unique circumstances. She chronicles the (first) death of Lazarus and the following resurrection. Through it, I learned a host of new details…things I either forgot or didn't pick up in Bible College. And while the book walks the reader through all these great little facts and details that aren't always readily present within the context of the Bible passage, it doesn't feel as if you're reading a college text or sitting in a lecture hall. Sheila's writing style is lively and engaging. Each chapter starts off with a personal anecdote, and then walks the reader through a historical account found in the Bible. Finally, each chapter ends with Sheila bringing her point home and explaining what the reader should learn from the passage, how the reader can apply the passage to his or her own life.

Be prepared to have your thinking and faith stretched. I was unable to sit and read the book cover to cover simply because it made me face my hidden faults and insecurities. If you're looking for a book to help you grow your faith and at the same time make you feel as if you're not alone in learning to trust God, then this book is for you.

Dawn